tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82605012011-07-31T17:37:09.416+08:00friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.comBlogger831100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-83190689686937647382010-08-24T00:56:00.004+08:002010-08-24T01:37:44.865+08:00

Couple of articles today, one in the NYTimes and the other from Wired, both having potential impact on raising Zaki. Redshirting KindergartenersThis is not the solution. The school system's the failure. Every child is curious and excited to learn. It's not a matter of letting kid being left at home as both parents now everywhere else needs to work. What we need are schools focused on feeding

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Seems we're not the only ones fascinated and perplexed by the kid. Last week, we met her teacher along with the school principal at school. Conversation pieces I remembered:In my years of teaching, this is first time I felt frustrated. Despite all my efforts, it seems I couldn't break through to her.A certain speaker at a conference I attended spoke of a small percentage of children who were

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First of all, I'm not going to argue for absolutes because I'm quite sure many consider ourselves quite normal even without the so-called progressive parenting that we rarely enjoyed as children. Point I want to make is that we should not rest until we can give the best for our kids - not in terms of material wealth but of course, little things that we could tweak to make better caring, creative

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Zaki's new obsession is Charlie Brown and she's willing to have her head shaved. Maybe someday. For now, all she can do is wear yellow shirts and try to sing-along ...

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Zaki: Bakit ka paulit-ulit, daddy? (Why do you keep on repeating yourself, daddy?)Besides belaboring the point, I simply can't help it. It just comes out of my mouth in the hope that actions would likely follow. Can only wish that I be given more chances and opportunities to do so.To not be encumbered as to how to spend it well. To be, as much as possible, present.Nothing else but time, baby.

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-53401663034050339382009-12-07T07:31:00.006+08:002009-12-07T07:54:21.591+08:00

Zaki and I both had big days within the last 72 hours, big as in there's more than 5 people within arms reach, had to dress up and we're right in the thick/think of the action. With clockwork precision, we're both down with flu right after. Happens every year.I'd say, there are a lot of things we can improve on to make it a bigger celebration next year as long as family, friends and dearest ones

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-53258280701464116942009-11-26T16:48:00.002+08:002009-11-26T16:52:40.572+08:00

I should probably be creating a new version because that little girl has grown quite a lot already. One of these days ...Thank you - The Pale Fountains

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Lord knows I don't really know what those terms mean and I'd hardly use them during conversations especially with Zaki. Still, I do believe that one of the most enduring conflicts that dominate childhood (or at least from an adult perspective) is how to thread the line between the fantasy stuff and what actually happens.Coincidentally, there's a brilliant piece about the movie "Where the Wild

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I read the news today oh boyAbout a girl who had me turned awayAnd though each day just seems to passShe always makes me gaspIn silence, I would laughNow there she stands across the floorCould something better be worth living forAnd if it seems that hopes' beyondI'd just close my eyesCould go on but certain that no words could capture all these thoughts(Borrowing from John, Paul, George and Ringo

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Go ahead, Pacman! Enter politics. It would be better to have a brain that can be corrupted than remain the hero who in the future cannot even recall, why he is revered as such and at same time, wondering why he is still alive. Don't care whether you're doing it to help more people but by all means, realize that it's time to stop, no later. Few of us would have the sense to recognize that we

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He probably would be the 2nd unofficial family member after marrying our dearest Neng - exactly when, I could not remember at the moment.He mostly kept to himself but always ready to to help with whatever chore with never a hint of dismay. Always with a ready smile, he seems a content with how life is most often, a struggle to find a steady wage. Yet, his biggest enemy remains to be his

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-51390645767267553022009-09-16T14:46:00.007+08:002009-09-16T17:16:07.577+08:00

Like most first-time parents raising kid/s, the urge to get it right often leads to plenty of research and book expenses. We're we for the better for it? Or was it all about approval for our parenting methods as a result of our own childhood experiences. In any case, I feel helpless and confused. Worse, Zaki would be the one who suffers the most.There must be a better way. I'm not looking

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You may not be able to remember this in a few year's time, Zaki but this was one week where we spent consecutive days going on daily trips even as the rains kept pouring. Sure, it was a Monday holiday (in honor of Mr. E. Manalo who passed away just a few days prior to that), but we never did get some rest. Starting with the weekend, we just got ourselves into trouble going to Alabang and ended

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Controversy on the Caster Semenya case ... Debate will be either philosophical or scientific/medical standards. Debating sex ...Brings to mind the past and quite possibly, what athletes who have CAH has in the future.

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Ayelet Waldman on time with kids:“Quality time doesn’t work with kids,” she says. “If kids had to decide between spending one hour a day with an attentive, loving mom, and 24 hours with a bitterly suicidal mom, they’ll pick the suicidal wretch every time. They want you 24/7.”It is much easier to say that it was because of CAH that we quit our jobs to dedicate ourselves to your first 3 years of

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-24000847157952990762009-07-31T08:57:00.004+08:002009-07-31T09:37:48.100+08:00

Under threat?There's a good post about EDC's (Endocrine-Disrupting Chemicals) that highlight environmental threats. We don't know really if these chemicals are harmful, but the evidence is mounting.Deformities, threats to immune system as well as hormone disturbances would be the ones worth keeping an eye on and so far investigations on frog deformities may shed more light on agricultural

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I'm not sure you're going to remember this after some time but with me and mum, you watched your first Harry Potter on the big screen a few days ago after almost a week of "Are you going with us or staying at home" discussions.And so finally, we all went to watch Harry and the Half-Blood Prince amidst the backdrop of a dark, stormy weather, finding comfort inside the Mall of Asia not unlike our

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-21324184551040245642009-07-15T19:27:00.002+08:002009-07-15T19:33:22.705+08:00

First, pardon the language. Zaki's been picking up a lot of stuff especially on TV and owing to her genes, she's bound to be extra receptive to irreverent stuff. Much as I want to apologize, this dad can't help it. Innate punk.But it doesn't mean I'm up to no good at all. Failings and all, this is for you, Zaki.I Believe in You from Jon Gordon on Vimeo.

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Zaki started oral steroids since day 4 but it was only last night that she was able to take it without us having to dissolve it before giving it to her.How'd we do it? Wrap it in chocolate.Now, she is a certified pill-popper. Pics to come.

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Health maintenance and prevention are like cost-savings from company efficiencies that turn incoming cash flow into profits.A week ago, Zaki started having slight fever but nothing Paracetamol didn't cool down. She also had been suffering from a minor case of colds even before that and based on past experiences, we simply brushed it aside as one of those normal 'sick' days she's having. Besides

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-56905505530649287942009-06-26T10:12:00.005+08:002009-06-26T11:09:16.201+08:00

Trouble with sick kids is that first sign that fever subsides, it's back to clowning around! It's in the jeans!She has fever. My assessment is that it's not Swine Flu even as many are threatened these days. Fortunately, wifey is here, but it still will need a concerted effort, not just the necessary medicines to give the best possible care to little kid.Weak as she is, you can't stop her from

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F/Poster ParentCouple of things that happened Sunday/yesterday.1. Was able to watch 2 movies at home on TV. If you have a kid and you have a TV set, you know this is rare. First movie we watched was Knowing and the second was Mulan. Funny but it seemed that those were good films about fatherhood and was trying to tell me something about the day. Watch and weep.2. First time that Zaki greeted

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-54573080799326794202009-06-09T06:19:00.003+08:002009-06-09T09:12:56.717+08:00

Kid and her new kingdomI had been wrestling with a project at work for almost 2 weeks now to the point of obsessing over it and not getting restful sleep - not that I had been getting any ever since Zaki has occupied almost half of the bed between mum and me. Or has it been ages even before that, probably.Anyway, regarding the project, I had kept reading and referencing stuff and other materials

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Jesus.I don't know how other parents manage to take a lot of their young kids to attend Sunday mass. For quite a period of time, I'd just be adding more to my sin count trying to subdue Zaki from being the hyper kid that she is that I thought it better to not just attend mass. Of course, the alternative of going ourselves wasn't too appealing either as I'd rather spend as much time with her.

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-26333239645482922652009-05-11T23:09:00.003+08:002009-05-11T23:40:58.564+08:00

Zaki,Honestly, Mom's Day is just commerce. Probably better to 'spend' those regular days celebrating time you have with mum and show how much we appreciate her for what she has done and for being the person that she is. Besides, it's apparent that, more and more each day, you'd end up a carbon copy of her so be nice or the transformation will speed up ten-fold!Yes, terrible pic that is but it

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-89564028388090529142009-04-20T05:48:00.003+08:002009-04-20T06:15:46.336+08:00

Came across a post, no, a rant against having kids. I'm pretty sure my wife and I have felt the same way plenty of times the last four years, especially when we chose to be stay at home parents then. There were a lot of things we were not able to do (and truth is right up to today.) Personal space, as much as it is important, seems but an illusion already. The post, from Penelope, even

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-18270312434236118462009-04-06T12:38:00.003+08:002009-04-06T12:41:50.490+08:00

Album Cover

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It all went by so fast and now Zaki has just finished her first year of school. Although it wasn't smooth by any standards, her time at school has been really educational. Not only has she started developing quite an interest in alphabets, numbers and books in general but she definitely learned a lot about how to make friends and learning to play with other children. Much so with boys, if I

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Cue in Prefab Sprout's Wild Horses and/or Horsing Around because the kid loves to ride 'em horses and carousel won't cut it anymore....While Mum is all smiles because of a shopper's paradise just a 'kalesa' ride away.

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-81729890587040433212009-01-09T10:31:00.004+08:002009-04-06T12:42:50.734+08:00

Just a quick post that the holidays are apparently over and that Zaki is itching to go back to school but not itching to wake up early for it. Oh, well - bus driver and nanny duties, here we go again!

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-19211570812688847132008-12-16T13:44:00.006+08:002008-12-16T14:21:04.222+08:00

Zaki and the rest of the Bridge School kids had their Christmas presentation last week, a play entitled, The Three Trees.To say that all parents (and grandparents) were excited would be an understatement. There were lots of singing and two Beatles' songs in there, too. Zaki and the rest of the Younger Pre-school kids sang, Georgies' Here Comes the Sun and All You Need is Love.And yes, it's

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It has been a really busy week already at Morph Labs and at the same time with all the preparations for the school's Christmas' presentation. Nevertheless, it looks to be fun even if we're a bit late with handing out the gifts to the other kids and missing a few ones still for tomorrow is gonna be the last day.Strange to hear Zaki asking me a a bunch of times if I'm coming to watch her

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-43054122863790845702008-12-08T02:16:00.005+08:002008-12-09T13:29:33.233+08:00

I do admit that there are times when it just gets so difficult writing week after week. Not that there are no special things to speak of nor shout about but it must be the grind that is getting to me coupled with my health not cooperating as it had in the past. This isn't exactly how blogging should be for me (and this is exactly where the paths diverge between revered journalists and people

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-83032019037272474902008-11-29T16:50:00.002+08:002008-11-29T16:52:33.808+08:00

No turkey, to dress-ups, no sit down dinners. No problem.I've a lot to be thankful for -- like being able to wake up each day with wit intact and with body that is still able to follow mental commands. In short, I'm alive!But what good is it to be alive...Good thing, I've got 1 perfectly good reason....Hope I always remember

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Dang, idiot box.Just one more proof that you just can't put your trust on traditional media. They simply don't get it.Dads got a lot of explaining to do but this time, we'll just have to do it one person at a time, beginning and ending with Zaki.[I know Dad's list of misdeeds and offenses just got longer but if it's any consolation, Zaki, you may want to read this in the future]

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In full Flash regalia, almost daily!It has been awhile since I posted something about Zaki. So far, she has been attending school the whole morning 5 days a week and the only problem we have is that she doesn't wake up as early for us to be relaxed driving to school. Usually, it's a 20 minute drive and she wakes up just 15-20 minutes before we leave in a huff.She doesn't take a bath anymore (

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-14497575880673933552008-08-02T17:55:00.005+08:002008-08-02T18:45:14.240+08:00

Much delayed videos of 'silly' Zaki at school with classmates. Teacher says that she always tries to be funny. I think she got it from mum.

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-29512608356218832192008-06-30T09:29:00.004+08:002008-06-30T09:52:19.114+08:00

Pool at Bridge School (now pool of tears, mine and Zaki's)It's third week of school and Zaki doesn't seem to be excited attending classes already. So far. she's missed 3 days already. I'm bummed out and can't help think it's all my fault.She had a great first week until I had to fly to Cebu and mess the routine. The 2nd week, when I was away, teacher said that she demanded to go out after

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'Twas Zaki's first day at school. Look how excited she is :(No need to point out who's more excited than the kids and the teachers.More pics to come as soon as I get over it.

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-83663676257010707992008-06-07T02:02:00.011+08:002008-06-07T10:20:27.312+08:00

If there ever was something Zaki could do that really amazes us (besides her sharp memory for people's names, new wave music & DC and Marvel comic book characters), it's solving puzzles. Posted a few videos which I took on a hot summer afternoon. Really. Although, both kid and dad do have penchant for looking skimpy at home:-) Our way of saving soap and water for laundry.SpideyPooh Part 1Wait

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-31314761777865295922008-06-07T02:01:00.001+08:002008-06-07T02:01:20.520+08:00

.flickr-photo { }.flickr-frame { float: left; text-align: center; margin-right: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } IMG_0551, originally uploaded by Zakishymn. Zaki looking pensive when in reality what being with her is - EXpensive. No worries, though - she being with us is more than enough payment!

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-68370286117054013602008-06-07T01:58:00.001+08:002008-06-07T01:58:14.712+08:00

.flickr-photo { }.flickr-frame { float: left; text-align: center; margin-right: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } IMG_0561, originally uploaded by Zakishymn. Lying in the 'duyan' or hammock is one thing people won't be able to get too much off. Maybe it's the outdoor feeling of being care-free is what we normally associate with or maybe, it's

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-84902695404855446092008-05-20T22:06:00.007+08:002008-05-20T22:46:28.018+08:00

There was a time when things weren't really going for us back then when Zaki was born. Still, we had to find sources of strength, hope and inspiration in nearly all places we laid our eyes and mind on. Fortunately, we found those both offline and online.Having friends, relatives, loved ones and medical personnel for support and help did get us through a lot. And never did I discount the

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-68983545012078848052008-05-01T11:12:00.006+08:002008-05-01T21:22:50.646+08:00

Been having a really hectic week and going about completing Zaki's requirements before he gets officially enrolled in school this June.But now to more important matters.Just so you might know, Zaki and about 80 other kids who suffer from CAH need daily medications in order to live. Zaki takes two kinds of those daily and like the others would have to take the medicines for the rest of her life

friarminorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627846114387619720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8260501.post-44578582733356547342008-04-19T08:01:00.002+08:002008-04-19T08:03:03.724+08:00

.flickr-photo { }.flickr-frame { float: left; text-align: center; margin-right: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } First Plane Ride - Cebu Trip,originally uploaded by Zakishymn. If only keeping those seatbelts fastened were as easy as sending photo posts from Flickr. Haaayyy.

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It has been 2 months ago since I've posted something here. Blame it on several factors such as work, uhhhmm ... work and work. But really, it is not as though we never had enough good times with Zaki during the past months. On the contrary, Zaki had a couple of first experiences - first time to meet cousins from the US, first time to ride a bike and just a few weeks ago, her first plane ride.

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It never fails to get my attention the moment I see something that bears his name. Every time.All this time I wasn't sure what the attraction was; maybe it is the wizardry or maybe the sport. But seeing this photo made me realize it was something else....It was like as he was playing to world adulation, he wasn't really there. His eyes betray he was somewhere else - searching for answers.The

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Just a couple of pics I took of Zaki via my camera phone. Ain't that bad, don't you think ...See if you can spot her mummy ...

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Looking over at the image at the top of this blog would give you an inkling of two things I'm really passionate about. Can you guess what those two are? Yes, graphics and transparency. Makes sense but no....Read for clues here.

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There are times when news certainly brings you down. More than Heath's death, there are some things that are equally painful to hear. Like this one from, sigh, Yahoo! Of all companies!Came across this great article (really!) on things to do in case you lose your job this year. Or if you care about finding one.One more thing. It would be easy to say that we all should "live within our means",

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Last night. Zaki just cajoled me again into buying her a new 'Dark Knight' (circa Batman Begins) figure amidst the surprised looks from the salesladies at SM who kept offering her princess' items and other cute characters instead. Never thought Heath would bring a whole new meaning to the item and the day past.Lost Knight. Ledger appeared as a Knight, remember? But simply brilliant in

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One of the few words, albeit annoying, that Zaki has already mastered. And taking the cue from her, upon seeing this news, Buy!Reminded me of 'Finding Neverland'. Great movie while Zaki loved the theme.

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No offense to Dunkin Donuts (my wife and I do love Bavarian!), but I really need to extend our gratitude to Krispy Kreme, Go Nuts Donuts and Zaki's official beverage aside from milk in times of trouble, Gatorade (Tropical Fruit Flavor?/ Red one) for keeping her up the week after she got out from the hospital.You see even though she looked quite well by Christmas day already, Zaki still was having

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And just when I thought that we'd finally be enjoying a regular, worry-free Christmas, here's what made this year unforgettable ...1. Just finished my Christmas blog and thought I was done for the week and Zaki woke up almost at lunchtime and went straight to the PC asking to watch Spidey and Dark Knight trailers.2. She did not drink milk all 12 hours. She still hasn't had any meal and we

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It has been months since the last post. Yes, been quite busy with work and the grind of being in front of the Macbook - searching, reading and typing really has taken it's toll on me. But there's no denying that the holidays brings with it a lot of positive cheer.We're not talking of the usual gifts and presents here, though. As one gets, uhh, old certain material things just don't cut it

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It is not Oct 4 but it sure feels like it. Why? Because 14,000 blogs and 12 million readers have united to make this day special. Just like the time when a simple man was recognized for his sacred devotion through his earthly mission. His name is Francis.Anyway, St. Francis never really wanted anything extraordinary while he lived. Yet, people who have met him could feel how much he cared

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It's been a while since Zaki and I were able to jam and listen together to songs courtesy of my playlists. The last few weeks, the only tunes we keep hearing were those I made with some Paul Weller circa Style Council plus some Kevin Tihista tunes because it was the only cd that my faulty - dirty car mp3 stereo has no trouble playing. And with my desktop PC still out of commission, and the

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Deathly Hallows. JK Rowling surely knows how to pick her titles. Although she isn't revealing what the title means, most fans (and there are plenty, I guess) would finally be able to find out what it is 2 days from now. Unless, you've heard about the leak. Have you?Well, Zaki couldn't care less about the new book. Obviously, because she can't read yet. All she wants is for us to surf the

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It would be fair to say that I would never see any of the ancient wonders of the world nor the new ones even. Looks like even completing the new list wasn't spared by democracy and the internet so much so that the Egyptians found the idea of nominating the Giza for the new list as ridiculous (Somehow, I agree with them because the Pyramids are definitely shoo-ins.) But as with opinion, however

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About 4 hours ago, Zaki officially ended her 2 years and 6 months birthday celebration. We hadn't planned anything special really. We just had our usual afternoon inflatable pool bath with a bonus of afternoon rain showers which left us both parading on the deserted street in front of the house. Then she took her nap and after which, we proceeded to 'doh' (McDonalds, where else) for her fried

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After almost a month of tantrum-filled weeks, Zaki has finally calmed down to manageable proportions and being with her isn't too 'toxic' as it had been. Don't really have a clue as to what changes we or she made but we're thankful for the last 3 days that we did not engage in 'battle' basically. As much as we'd like to teach her the finer points of behavior, I think I need them more than she

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Despite occasional protestations from feminist and pacifist relatives, we weren't about to let Zaki down from her web of delight. So off we went to her first movie, Spiderman 3.Surprise, she stayed awake and interested the whole 2 hours we were in the theater. During non-action scenes, she would be walking up and down the neon-lighted aisle trying to figure where the pictures coming from while

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By the look of things, most of the candidates who would be declared winners by the end of next week's elections would surprisingly still be, uhm, politicians - people engaged in politics. Now, is it that bad to be called as such?Let us just consult the web for definitions of politics and maybe you'll find one that best applies to Filipinos.My favorite? It is this one. (Read it and laugh - then

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I just have to write something about Mikki. With all the negative items on the news, her story is a breath of fresh air (like the ones you feel when you go out of Metro Manila and into the simple probinsya).Nope. Wasn't too big on academics really (uh, sourgrape) but nonetheless, achievements such as hers are nothing to be scoffed at. As a parent, I could only pray that Zaki remain healthy

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I'm sure Lola Nanay is watching us from the heavens. Really miss her.(Photographer ain't that bad either)

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It is summer and people spend a lot of time cooling themselves by going to the beaches and staying out while for those who don't have the privilege of air-conditioned office rooms, staying home means turning on the cooling systems and spinning the electric meters crazy.But wait. I've read about this Earth Day though there wasn't that much fuzz celebrating it. Could it be because there are 2 days

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How many times have you seen or heard parents holding out their babies off environments not germ-free or not letting them discover the thrill of the playground because he or she will get sand or mud and/or they forgot to bring antibacterial wipes or lotion.Well, know what, medical experts are pleading with parents to stop with the anti-germ hysteria because rather than preventing illness in

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Not really sure what the exact term means in Filipino but as far as I'm concerned, it refers to 'being at one with', to share a feeling or even deeper, empathize. The tragedy at Virginia Tech last week may not be the worst of tragedies given how people have been at war with fellow men, environment and even themselves. Yet, it doesn't necessarily negate the senselessness of it all.But today,

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I've just come across a forum asking what are the things that generally make adults cry. Some list movies, others books while a number say that their kids, especially the time when they say their first words, never fail to make their lacrimals drip. Count me among them and if you want further proof, this video may be putting it quite mildly than how we envision Zaki once she straightens her

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Time for another glimpse into Zaki's life, so far. (So, who is Nick Drake? )For those who want their kids to have a head start (who doesn't?) through expensive baby products, you may want to consider more traditional play and games instead. See here. And more.

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It wasn't too long ago that we were quite impatient waiting for Zaki to break out of her almost 20 hours of daily sleep and quiet inactivity for us to be able to spend waking hours to be able to play with her. Today, the irony is that we couldn't wait to put her to sleep (by whatever means, natural or artificial ?!) so we could at least get some shut eye and rest before she again darts and

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I still haven't figured out how to tweak the template for my own liking but I'm reading a lot so expect some changes by tomorrow (or next year). Here's the banner I made for Zaki's 2nd birthday last Dec 8 and finally a vid. Happy New Year to everyone!

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Change, I think it's about time . . .

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Can't really think of anything to say right now.

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"(she's) a fool for the rodeo . . ."

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Most people need to find out all the answers in dealing with life. Uncertainty is something we'd rather sweep under the rug. Yet, life isn't a guarantee, otherwise, it would be boring and will feel monotonous. It is all about risks and facing up to fears and challenges. It is holding on to visions with hope that even without a clear picture, things are definitely looking up.

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I've had a gruelling but exciting 4 weeks with a new job that required me to get up at 4:15 am and out of the house before 5 am to make it on a 6 am schedule. Thought the schedule would be fine since I'd be home earlier and could spend time with Zaki. Alas, had no gas left in my tank by the time I get home and would often doze off the moment my body touches anything resembling a bed. Off

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Sure, we knew that Zaki's birth meant a lot of changes in our lives, like giving up sleep and movies - not that tragic really , but I never imagined how drastically our world will be since December 2004. We've had the tsunami, hurricane, avian flu, mudslides and yes, terrorist attacks to complete the negative equation. But come to think of it, I guess more people now have come to the

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I've never had to work this hard all my life and still feel that I am doing a poor job. I've been a full-time dad to Zaki for nearly 11 months now although I still play second fiddle to my wife in terms of primary care. Physically, I think this is quite a workout. Mentally, it's driving me nuts. (Just imagine being the mother).If all babies are like her, then a toast to all parents who have

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Everything stopped for at least 5 hours yesterday in the Philippines. (Not for Zaki since she was her usual hyperactive self complete with intermittent bursts of shrieks and screams which could have floored even trained boxers if they spend a day with her.) This time though it is not due to some political disturbance nor natural calamity. This one is a result of Pac Man - Manny Pacquiao's

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Just want to say that my wife, Zaki ( 13 months old) and I are listening for almost 2 and 1/2 years already to Keane and has shown no signs of stopping until a new album perhaps or another brilliant song/s comes along. Just saw the "Strangers" DVD and it has just renewed the sense of wonder that we have for the band. Their music truly is special and heartfelt. Reminds me of the new wave bands

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For the last few months since she was born - Dec 8, 2004, Zaki was never much of an eater. Since she was diagnosed with a rare medical condition known as Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia (CAH), she was prone to throwing up almost everything she eats and drinks. Thankfully, beginning yesterday, she has turned instantly into a food deposit chamber! Whereas before, she only puts non-edible things into

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